Moving

My boyfriend came to NY for Valentines Day to spend that time with me 😍 but also he had 2 interviews lined up! To make a long story short he got BOTH jobs!!!! FINALLY the 890 mile gap is closing!!! Im so happy and overwhelmed at the same time. We’ll finally be together, but we wont be living together. Im stuck on a lease with my mom until October so he’s getting his own place til we can get a place together. Either way im still happy! This is definitely a new chapter in my life! 2015 is shaping out to be a good year for relationships and education… Hopefully 2016 brings the money lol

So far, so good.

I’m just being honest with myself, I can’t get over the fact that he slept with two girls in the four months we were broken up. It bothers me so bad, but at the same time we weren’t together. In the process of it all he was lying to me but eventually came out with the truth. Now he’s starting to apologize for doing what he did and I don’t understand it. Why are you apologizing for something you wanted to do?

Besides that, everything else is great. We’re thinking about moving in with each other. He’s talking about moving to New York, which makes me happy, because I’m in school right now and when I graduate (May 2016) We’ll move south. So hopefully The motions will start probably late spring because his lease at his apartment in Georgia is up in April.

I’m looking forward to the future just taking it one day at a time…

I know I cant force it

I need advice. My ex-boyfriend and I always spoke of moving in with each other (im in NY, he’s in GA). Recently he’s been on the fence about the whole situation, but I have a job interview soon. I think leaving New York would be a great thing for me but going to live with him for the time scares me also. Knowing he really isn’t up for a relationship right now. I feel like I’m doing this for myself, but in the back of my mind I’m hoping us being closer together makes him realize we should be together. I’m confused and I don’t know what to do.